saw it from facebook

曾经在某个地方看到一句话，


~“看一个人爱不爱你不是看他平常对你有多好，而是吵架的时候怎么对你”~





当我看到这句话我便时时刻刻记着它。





两个人在交往的时候，

或许你的男朋友在平常并不十分细心体贴或是说些让你开心的话。

或许你的男朋友很温柔很体贴或是把你捧在手心疼。



我觉得那都没关系。

因为在恋爱的时候，没吵架的时候，大家都心情好，自然不会对对方太差。

但是吵架的时候就差很多了。

每个人都在气头上，都有股怒气想爆发……都是一样不满。



可是，真正爱你的人是不会因为生气而去伤害你的。

不管是动手打人或是口出恶言……都不是一个真正爱你的人会做的。

正在吵架或是生气都不是一个可以伤害对方的藉口。

如果够爱你，就舍不得你让你受伤害……不是吗?



曾经看到过一个故事：

“有一个女的，交了一个男朋友，外在条件很好，平常对她更是呵护倍致，专情的不得了，……那时候她觉得他是真的很爱她，从来没有人那么体贴那么温柔，她以为自己真的遇到一个真心爱她的人。可是，只要一吵架，他就变了。他只要一吵架，拼命挂她电话……骂她脏话……当他第一次这样骂她的时候，她整个人呆掉……觉得这是幻觉……后来和好的时候他觉得自己很不应该，一直道歉，她就心软了……但是，后来吵架，他还是故态复萌……同样的重复……她终于看清楚，这个人，不管他平常对她有多好，但是在生气的时候任意的伤害她就足以证明，他并不是真正的爱她。她对他，或许平常的时候淡淡的……但是她知道她对他非常的在意。所以就算在争执，她也没办法骂下去，她不忍，也觉得不该。她觉得她不该伤害一个她爱的人……"



吵架该是一种沟通，不该以伤害为目的。

我们要学习的，就是在吵架中成长，

在吵架中走向和谐、拥有幸福。



我想，如果，现在你的身旁有一个人，是即使吵架也不会伤害你的，愿意让着你的。



请好好珍惜吧！一定要好好珍惜……

因为昨天的事我的心一直忐忑不安

心里的刺令我感到很痛

默默的掉眼泪

默默地擦眼泪

我很讨厌自己

为什么好好的一段感情会这样

为什么为了一件事搞到我行尸走肉

不想上学

不想读书

不想教拳

不想比赛

不想弹琴

任何事情我都不想去做，去理

好累。。。

到底要哭多久

到底要怕多久

现在的我好想窝在你怀里

让你宠让你疼

但你却不在我身边

我真的好累好累

心好痛

今天你打给我时我很开心

可是你却比平时冷漠

但你依然关心我

至少有哄我

也听到我们每次关电话之前的话

老婆 / 老公，我爱你

这代表你原谅我了吗

怡，谢谢你陪我

也谢谢你开导我

也谢谢其他关心我的朋友

不管怎样我依然很爱老公

真的很爱很爱你

countdown : 66 days

argue with dear just now

i cry until my eye become 'swell'

... lolx ...

he scold me until i can't handle

i cry and cry and cry

but in the end he forgive me

today was the worst day in my life

dear say something to me that make me feel so bad

he said...

在我发火的时候只有你不能没有我，我能没有你！

在我很生气的时候我什么都做得出，包括不要你！

whatever he said that really make me feel sad

i will try to forget it

no matter how

i will still love u forever and ever

please don't dumb me

countdown : 67 days

we've been together 8 months

and dear called me in the afternoon today

feel so touched until i cried

and i was wondering

how he call me cause he in NS

he told me he using public phone

and he act so cute

love him so much

chu ♥

countdown : 70days

i miss u a lot

hope time will really fly

countdown : 72 days

long post

14th June

************

went to kepong jusco to watch movie and buy present for dad

me and dear went out often this few weeks cause he going to NS

we watched Karate Kid on that day

it's damn good

i bought a mug for daddy on that day

we went home early cause there have nothing to buy

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15th June

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company dear to hospital to have a body check

i'm glad that he was normal but sad too cause he comfirm need to go to NS

anyway that day i went to Ipoh to meet my cousins

on the way , with dear give me de bear  =)

at 16th , my little bro's b'day we only go to Penang

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16th - 18th June

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arrived Penang

some pics

Penang Bridge

at Kek Lok Si

the fat one is my cute lil bro ^^

not yet ready ==

first snap

second snap

K. Sern

at night *cari makan*

17th *snake temple*

this is the place where "Little Nyonya" shoot

very big and nice

there has a old piano but the pic was in my mom's camera

daddy~

me~

it is real gold O.O

there are more but i just post some of them

lazy to post others dy

here is me on the old beca and my uncle is 'pulling'

it's dinner time

going home * in the farry*

went to night safari at taiping

but before going we went to the lake

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19th June

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went to dear's house to help him pack his things

then we went to dear's sis salon to have a hair cut

for sure dear is going to be a BOTAK

gosh his head is soooo ROUND

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today is a very sad and tired day

about 7 i woke up and go to teach WuDo

dear went to the place they gather around 8 and went off at 9 i think

missed him a lot

i cried for about ten over times

dear keep ask me not to cry but i just can't stop my tears

why i'm crying like this?

love my dear a lot

please god let him come back as early as he could

and please don't let him get hurt

but fat is ok for me

haha~